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You Can Do It If You Try!

by Dr. Len July 25, 2010

 

A lot of experts write and talk about getting more exercise and making the commitment to a healthier lifestyle.  I am one of those folks who think staying active is important, especially as we get older.

 

But there are many out there who just can't seem to get it done.  One excuse or another, whether it is time, work, travel or other obligations-whatever, we just can't seem to get where we need to be when it comes to our health.

 

So forgive me while I take a personal moment to share with you my pride and admiration of someone very close to me who has made that commitment for the sake of her health and well-being to do something special, something they never dreamed they would be able to do.

 

 

As I write this, it is a little before 6AM on Sunday morning.  I have just dropped my wife and family off at the starting point of one of those mini-triathalon types of races.  My wife has never done one, and never thought she would.  Today, she is on her way to achieving her goal of completing one of these races, along with the support of her family and friends, some of whom are right beside her competing in the same race.

 

Sandra reached one of those milestone birthdays earlier this month (she probably doesn't want me to tell the world, so I will leave you guessing which one it is.  Hint: not the first one, and not the last one.  Sort of in-between.)  We have a friend here in north Georgia who challenged her a couple of months ago to celebrate her milestone by competing in this race, and my wife took up the challenge.

 

So it was "off to the races" so to speak, including getting a bike, learning about the race and training as often as possible.  It wasn't easy, and it certainly wasn't convenient.  It helped that our north Georgia friend and our son-in-law had done it before, so they became not only coaches but reservoirs of information about how to do this insane event. And, as she competes in today's race, her son, daughter and son-in-law will be in there with her, supporting her in her quest.  (Not to mention the other family members and me who will be greeting her as she crosses the finish line, whenever that may be.)

 

The "official" race is going to start in about an hour.  But my wife has already won the race as far as I am concerned.  She made the effort, she trained whenever she could (within the confines of a very busy schedule as a practicing doctor), and now she is ready to go.  She kept her promise to herself.

 

But this tale is not only about my wife and about today's race.  As I said, in my heart, she has already won.  Hopefully she will finish the race, which will be victory itself.  She isn't out there to actually win this race, and we all know she certainly won't be in the top 10.  The real victory is making the effort, keeping the commitment, and fulfilling the promise and the dream.

 

Now, let's take a moment to let me share with you my thoughts about why I think this story could mean to you and the significant people in your life, and why I wanted to share it with you.

 

You don't have to participate in a triatholon to be a winner.  Maybe for you your victory will be taking the time every day to walk a little further, to eat a little better, to do something different that is positive for your health.  It is the act of doing something special for yourself-maybe something you never thought you could do.  That can be your commitment, that can be your "race", and that can be your victory.

 

And maybe-just maybe--if you set your own goals, you too can achieve your dreams.  I know my wife already has, and the starting gun hasn't even sounded.

 

Good luck!

 

PS: For those of you who may be interested, the American Cancer Society sponsors endurance events through DetermiNation events.  If you are an endurance athlete--or want to be--this may be a way to meet your personal goals while helping support the programs of the American Cancer Society.

 

 

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Comments

8/10/2010 2:55:57 PM #

Nancy Cook

Yes your wife has won!  I am so proud of her and for your support of her, as we all need a great coach, caregiver and supporter each goal that we set.  Having stepped on many starting lines myself - it is the first race that I always go back to and realize why I have become addicted to running marathons, triathlons and mountains on the weekends in the spring, fall and summer.  

Keep up the great work, putting activity first and affecting your own health, and can't wait to see your results at the next 5K or mini triathlon -- never say never!  

Cheers to your wife, you and your family!  And thank you for all these postings, this blog and your support of my own cancer journey.

Nancy Cook

Nancy Cook

9/16/2010 10:43:28 AM #

William Bramblett

Hey Len!  I didn't know Sandra had done this.  You go, girl!  Karen has taken up running too, and has completed three 1/2 marathons and a 10K.  I'd like to do it too, if I could just get beyond this terrible inertia.....  Hope to see you soon.  Bill Bramblett

William Bramblett

10/4/2010 11:34:08 AM #

drlen

Bill, thanks for the note.  Sounds like we are on a "roll" in Thomasville!!!

Len

drlen

4/15/2011 1:14:40 PM #

Robert Seaman

Great story about getting involved.  By participating in a run or walk, people can help a worthy cause, and get some exercise at the same time!  Please visit the www.causescalendar.com website to find American Cancer Society special events near you.

Robert Seaman

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J. Leonard Lichtenfeld, MD, MACP - Dr. Lichtenfeld is Deputy Chief Medical Officer for the national office of the American Cancer Society.

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