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Quitting with a Little Help from Your Friends?

May 31, 2011

By J. Lee Westmaas, PhD


It's no secret that trying to quit smoking is hard. It can trigger irritability, anxiety, depression, and all sorts of other unpleasant emotions and physical feelings. But quitting is one of the most important things you can do for your health, and for the health of others. 

 

Sometimes smokers who want to quit are told that they should get their social network --the people around them -- to help, maybe by announcing to friends and family that they're going to quit, and asking for their support.

 

That support could be emotional -- listening to the smoker vent frustrations, providing encouragement, or simply being extra tolerant of crabbiness caused by nicotine withdrawal. It could also be practical, like helping out with tasks when withdrawal symptoms get to be too much, or providing a distraction when a craving hits.

 

Support Linked to Success

 

Research shows that people desperately want to help their loved ones quit and often contact telephone hotlines and other cessation resources for information on how to help. The question is, does this support really make a difference? If so, it's something we should encourage.

 

To find out, we need to look at the research evidence.

 

Some studies have indeed shown that the more support smokers say they got from other people during a quit attempt, the more likely they were to have quit. The problem is, these results don't prove that the support was a real factor in the smokers' success. It's also possible that people who weren't able to quit might be more inclined to blame others for a lack of support, regardless of how much they actually received.

 

To really get at the question of whether friends and family can help a smoker quit we need studies in which researchers randomly assign smokers to either receive or not receive social support from other people for their quit attempt, and then see whether smokers in the supported group are more likely to quit successfully.  To date, many studies using this approach haven't been very informative, possibly because the smokers were already enrolled in professionally-led quit smoking programs and might not have needed additional support from their family and friends. 

 

So what we need is to find smokers who are quitting on their own. Two studies that have done this have found that support from  friends  can have positive effects, at least in the short term.

 

Searching for the Right Formula

 

We don't know exactly why social support helps smokers quit, but understanding why will help us develop the best support strategies. Does support reduce anxiety and stress, which then alleviates cravings and the likelihood of lapsing? Does it increase feelings of achievement and motivation to quit?  Who should be the person providing the most support -- is a friend better than a spouse? Does the gender of the supporter matter? Are some people just naturally less inclined to benefit from support no matter what?

 

Interestingly, recent data the American Cancer Society collected from those wanting to quit showed that smokers quitting for the first time expected to receive lots of support from members of their social networks, yet the majority of smokers who had previously tried to quit said they didn't get very much. Obviously expectations are not being met and only through well-designed research can we understand how to address this.

 

In the meantime, if you want your family and friends to support your quit attempt, tell them about your plans and talk with them about what would be helpful. Just as important:  tell them what wouldn't be helpful, like criticizing you if you slip.

 

For more tips on how to quit smoking, see our section on quitting tobacco, or call our 24-hour information line at 1-800-227-2345.


J. Lee Westmaas is director of tobacco control research in the Behavioral Research Center at the American Cancer Society.

Comments

9/26/2011 5:16:34 PM #

aaron

Great post. I Do feel more people need to think about there friends and family as a solution to stop smoking. As a real life quitter and quit smoking blogger I know that friends can help. Keep up the good posts.

aaron

10/27/2011 3:35:51 PM #

Dawn

Having quit smoking myself I used visualization of a young woman who had lost her life to no fault of her own (unlike myself who chose to smoke). She was only 7 when she earned her angel wings. I learned a valuable lesson. She fought daily to have this life that I took for granted. My family that loves me tried many times to get me to quit and I even quit once at the insistence of my children. I know look back and wish I could take the years back that I smoked. I didn't appreciate the health that I had and am still at great risk for lung cancer after 21 years of smoking. I started smoking prior to realizing how awful it would damage my lungs and heart and then I was addicted and continue to be addicted to nicotine. Each time I crave a cigarette I think of young Faith who lost the life that she fought so hard to keep. I think the best thing we can do for ourselves is to see others who have done nothing to their bodies to damage them and fight, like Faith and many other humans to keep on living.... It kinda puts things into perspective. At least it did for me.

Dawn

1/8/2012 10:06:27 AM #

Indingrl♥

support for STAYING QUIT FOR I JUST CELEBRATED COLD TURKEY QUIT ONE NICOTINE FREE YEAR ON 01-06-2012 YAHOO!!! THANKS AND I WAS JUST SEARCHING FOR SUPPORT GROUP ON AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY SITE FOR STAYING QUIT GROUP ♥

Indingrl♥

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