When a loved one dies, it affects all their family members and loved ones. Each family finds its own ways of coping with death. A family's attitudes and reactions are shaped by cultural and spiritual values as well as by the relationships among family members. It will take time for a bereaved family to regain its balance.

The ability of each member to grieve with one another is important in helping the family cope. Each person will experience the loss differently and have different needs. As hard as it may be, it is important for family members to remain open and honest when talking with each other. This is not the time for family members to hide their grief to protect one another.

The loss of one person in a family means that roles in the family will change. Family members will need to discuss the effects of this change and the shift in responsibilities. This period of reorganization is stressful for everyone. This is a time to be even more gentle and patient with each other.

Last Medical Review: 01/17/2009
Last Revised: 01/17/2009