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When someone is diagnosed with cancer, the patient is not the only one
affected. The person responsible for care is also affected. Providing
care for a loved one with cancer can be very demanding. When caregivers
don't attend to their own needs and allow other pressures to take over,
they may become depressed and lose the ability to continue to care for
their loved one.
Spotting depression
as soon as possible can stop a downward
spiral of sadness and inability to function. Many successful ways of
treating depression are now available to help people regain joy, hope,
and the ability to cope.
Below are some of the signs and symptoms of depression.
- You feel sad or "empty" almost every day for most of the
day
- Your days bring little or no pleasure
- You are either too
restless or slowed down most of the time
- You have trouble making
decisions or have problems concentrating
- You have lost interest in
eating, or you are overeating. You have gained or lost weight without
dieting
- You have trouble sleeping, wake up early, or find yourself
oversleeping
- You feel many aches and pains that don't go away
- You have lost interest in sex
- You cry often
- You feel tired or a lack of energy almost every
day
- You have
thought about hurting yourself or attempted suicide
It isn't unusual for caregivers to have a couple of these
symptoms for a short time. However, they may mean that you are at risk
for becoming depressed. You may want to get more information about
managing
caregivers' responsibilities, including how to talk about
cancer, and how to find a support
group. You may want to get some ideas
about healthy coping from our Coping
Checklist for Caregivers.
If you have symptoms that last for 2 weeks or longer, or are
severe enough to interfere with normal day-to-day life, see a doctor or
mental health professional to be checked for depression. You may want
to print this checklist and take it to show your doctor or health care
team.
Looking at the last question, if you long to die or
think of
killing yourself, you may be seriously depressed. See your doctor right
away. For more information call your American Cancer Society
at
1-800-ACS-2345, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Asking for help does not mean a person is crazy. Depression
can be caused by the stress of caring for someone with cancer and the
serious life issues that a cancer diagnosis creates. Depression may
also occur because of a family history of depression, or with no clear
reason. Most important, depression can be treated with great success if
people ask for help.
ACS support
programs reach cancer survivors and patients
throughout the US, and practical advice is available online to help
patients with managing
day-to-day and coping
with physical and
emotional changes. For more information call your American
Cancer
Society at 1-800-ACS-2345.
At the ACS
Cancer Survivors Network Web site you can trade information
and experiences with other patients and survivors—all from the
convenience of your own home.
Revised: 1/3/2008
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