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If you are reading this, chances are that you or someone close
to you has advanced cancer. This probably means that cancer has spread
from where it started to other parts of the body, or it has harmed
vital tissues and organs.
At this point, you know that the cancer is not going away and
that you probably have limited time to live. In fact, your doctor may
have told you that there is no more treatment that can really help stop
your cancer and that you have only a short time left. Many patients and
family members have questions about what to expect during these last
months of life. You may have some of the same questions. The
information shared here has been written to help answer some of the
questions that patients and family members ask about what to expect
during the last 6 months of life.
Learning that you have advanced cancer may make you feel lost
and afraid. This is natural. People have many questions of all sorts,
such as:
- What is going to happen to me?
- Have I done everything I should have done?
- What are the other options?
- Am I going to die?
- How much control will I have over my life and my death?
- Will my wishes about my care be followed?
- How much pain and suffering will I have?
- What if I feel that I can't take much more treatment?
- What am I going to do about money?
- How long am I going to have to go through this?
- How can I burden my family in this way?
- Will this be too much for my family to bear?
- What happens when I die?
The following may help you understand what to expect both
physically and emotionally during these last few months. Hopefully, it
will help you to live fully and get the most out of this last phase of
your life. It is written for the person with cancer, but it can be
useful to the people who love and support someone with advanced cancer,
too. Use this information to get answers to your questions and concerns
about this very sensitive and difficult time. Please remember that
there are also professional cancer information specialists who are
ready to talk with you about these issues 24 hours a day, 7 days per
week at our National Call Information Center. You can speak to one of
them by calling 1-800-227-2345.
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