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Some people feel closer than ever to their partners and have an increased desire for sexual activity. Others experience little or no change in their sexual desire and energy level. Still others find that their sexual interest declines because of the physical and emotional stresses of having cancer and receiving chemotherapy treatments.
These stresses may include:
- Worries about changes in appearance
- Anxiety about health, family, or finances
- Side effects, including fatigue and hormonal changes
A partner's concerns or fears also can affect the sexual relationship. Some may worry that physical intimacy will harm the person who has cancer. Others may fear that they might "catch" the cancer or be affected by the drugs.
- You and your partner can clear up many such misunderstandings by discussing sexual concerns with your doctor, nurse, or a counselor who can give you the information and the reassurance you need.
- You and your partner also should try to share your feelings with one another. If it's difficult for you to talk to each other about sex, cancer, or both, you may want to speak to a counselor who can help you learn to communicate more openly.
If you were comfortable with and enjoyed sexual relations before starting therapy, chances are you will still find pleasure in physical intimacy during your treatment. You may discover, however, that intimacy takes on a new meaning and character. Hugging, touching, holding, and cuddling may become more important, while sexual intercourse may become less important.
For more information, please see Sexuallity for Women and Their Partners and Sexuality for Men and Their Partners.
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