Stories

I became acquainted with the Hope Lodge in the fall of 2006. At that time I had already lived through two illnesses considered terminal, two life-threatening surgeries and stays in five different hospitals that left me physically, emotionally and financially devastated.

This time, I needed to undergo six weeks of radiation treatments as an outpatient. Radiation to the throat area is very invasive and hard to go through, and I live two hours away from Moffitt Cancer Center. I had no more insurance and no more money, and I didn’t know what to do. I was too sick to drive back and forth, I couldn't afford the fuel and I certainly couldn't afford a motel.

Then Moffitt Cancer Center told me about the Hope Lodge. I'm a professional singer and musician and I have performed in many healthcare facilities but I had never seen one like this. No doctors or nurses, just family. The facility is very well thought out. You have your own kitchen, fridge and pantry, just like home. Not only that, but you don't have to eat alone. There are always family members to share a meal with or to help you prepare yours.

There are activities on a regular basis and people come in to share their talents with the Hope Lodge guests. On several occasions the staff allowed me to perform and it was a real blessing. Music is very healing, and as I played and sang, I noticed people smiling who I hadn't seen smile since I came to the Hope Lodge. People stood up out of wheelchairs to dance.

The staff is never far away and always has a helping hand. Knowing that is very comforting. I formed friendships with other guests and staff members that continue today.  My battle with cancer isn't over, and since I first stayed at Hope Lodge, I have had two more serious operations.

Every time I go back to Moffitt Cancer Center, I visit the Hope Lodge. It sounds strange to say, but sometimes I miss being there. I'm alive as a result of many miracles, and one of those miracles is the Hope Lodge. I hope I don't need to stay at Hope Lodge again, but I can tell you one thing. If there comes a time when I am sick and don't have anywhere to turn, because of Hope Lodge, I can always go home.

- Wayne Youngblood