- What is a colostomy?
- How your digestive system works
- Types of colostomies
- Closing or reversing a colostomy
- Managing your colostomy
- Choosing a colostomy pouching system
- Changing the colostomy pouching system
- Colostomy irrigation (for descending and sigmoid colostomies only)
- Ordering and storing colostomy supplies
- Caring for a colostomy
- Avoiding and managing colostomy problems
- If you are hospitalized while you have a colostomy
- Living with a colostomy
- Telling others about your colostomy
- Eating and digestion with a colostomy
- What to wear when you have a colostomy
- Returning to work after getting a colostomy
- Intimacy and sexuality when you have a colostomy
- Playing sports and staying active with a colostomy
- Traveling when you have a colostomy
- For parents of children with colostomies
- Getting colostomy help, information, and support
- To learn more
Living with a colostomy
Learning to live with a colostomy may seem like a big challenge, but it will get easier over time. Just as with any life change, having a positive outlook, patience, and a sense of humor are key.
There may be times after surgery when you feel discouraged. You may feel alone and isolated. Because the whole experience is so new to you, you may feel awkward, frustrated, and uncertain. Feeling discouraged is real and normal. You might cry, be angry, and react in ways that are unusual for you. Talking to a trusted friend, nurse, clergy, and certainly another person with an ostomy may help you work through those feelings.
Your social life can be as active as it was before surgery. You can enjoy the things you did before, such as travel, sporting events, and eating at restaurants. The first time you go out of the house after surgery, you may feel as if everyone is staring at your pouch even though it can’t be seen under your clothes. Remember, you may feel the pouch on your body, but no one can see it.
You may also worry about your pouch filling with gas and bulging under your clothing. A quick trip to the rest room can take care of this problem. If you’re worried about your pouch filling up right after eating at a social event, remember that people without colostomies often need to go to the rest room after eating, too. Nobody will think it unusual if you do the same. You will likely find that you need to empty your pouch less often than you need to urinate.
Last Medical Review: 12/02/2014
Last Revised: 12/02/2014