To learn more
National organizations and Web sites*
Cancer Really Sucks
Web site: www.cancerreallysucks.org
An internet-only resource designed for teens by teens who have loved ones facing cancer
Cancercare for Kids
Toll-free number: 1-800-813-4673
Web site: www.cancercareforkids.org
Online support program for teens with a parent, sibling, or other family member who has cancer. The toll-free number is for anyone who has cancer or who has a loved one with cancer.
Toll-free number: 1-800-899-2866 (If you get voicemail, leave a message to get a call back.)
Web site: www.kidskonnected.org
For children and teens who have a parent with cancer and for those who have lost a parent to cancer
Web site: www.kidscope.org
Has special online materials, including a virtual comic book for children about chemotherapy (Kemo Shark) and a video for kids about a mom with breast cancer
National Cancer Institute
Toll-free number: 1-800-422-6237
Web site: www.cancer.gov
To learn more about cancer, or to get special information for teens; you can call to order a special booklet for teens whose parents have cancer or read it online at: www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/when-your-parent-has-cancer-guide-for-teens
Books for adults
Can I Still Kiss You? Answering Your Children’s Questions About Cancer by Neil Russell. Published by HCI, 2001 .
Helping Your Children Cope With Your Cancer: A Guide for Parents, 2nd Ed. by Peter Van Dernoot and Madelyn Case. Published by Hatherleigh Press, 2006.
How to Help Children Through a Parent’s Serious Illness, 2nd Ed. by Kathleen McCue and Ron Bonn. Published by St. Martin’s Griffin, 2011.
Life and Loss: A Guide to Help Grieving Children by Linda Goldman. Published by Taylor and Francis Group, 2nd Ed., 1999.
When a Parent Has Cancer: A Guide to Caring for Your Children by Wendy S. Harpham. Published by William Morrow Paperbacks, 2004.
Books and other publications for children and teens
These books are intended for children, but younger kids are helped more when an adult reads with and helps the child reflect on what different parts of the book mean to the child.
Becky and the Worry Cup, by Wendy Harpham. Published by William Morrow Paperbacks, 2004. Best for ages 5 to 10. (Sold with When a Parent Has Cancer, by the same author.)
In Mommy’s Garden: A Book to Help Explain Cancer to Young Children by Neyal J. Ammary. Published by Canyon Beach Visual Communications, 2004. Best for very young children. Also available in Spanish.
Lost and Found: A Kid’s Book for Living Through Loss by Marc Gellman and Debbie Tilley. Published by HarperCollins, 1999. Best for ages 9 to 12.
Sammy’s Mommy Has Cancer (Books to Help Children) by Sherry Kohlenberg, Published by Gareth Stevens Publishers, 1994. Best for ages 4 to 9.
The Paper Chain by Claire Blake, Eliza Blanchard, and Kathy Parkinson. Published by Health Press, 1998. Best for ages 4 to 9.
The Year My Mother Was Bald by Ann Speltz and Kate Sternberg. Published by Magination Press, 2003. Best for ages 9 to 12.
Tickles Tabitha’s Cancer-Tankerous Mommy by Amelia Frahm. Published by Hutchinson, Nutcracker Publishing Company, 2001. Best for ages 4 to 7.
Vanishing Cookies: Doing OK When a Parent Has Cancer by Michelle B. Goodman. Published by Michelle B. Goodman, 1991. Best for ages 9 to 12. (Check libraries and treatment center reading rooms; it can be hard to find a copy for sale.)
When Your Brother or Sister Has Cancer: A Guide for Teens. National Cancer Institute, 1-800-4-CANCER or online at www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/when-your-sibling-has-cancer. Best for teens.
When Your Parent Has Cancer: A Guide for Teens. National Cancer Institute, 1-800-4-CANCER or online at www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/coping/when-your-parent-has-cancer. Best for teens.
Videos for children and adults
We Can Cope: Helping Parents Help Children When a Parent Has Cancer. DVD has sections for teens, younger children, and parents, as well as a guidebook on how to use it. Check your cancer treatment center library or call Inflexxion at 1-800-848-3895, extension 5 to find out how to buy it. (cost: $99.95)
No matter who you are, we can help. Contact us anytime, day or night, for information and support. Call us at 1-800-227-2345 or visit www.cancer.org.
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