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Can I Get Financial Support as a Caregiver?
Being a caregiver often means putting someone else’s needs before your own. Many caregivers take time away from work, reduce their hours, or leave their jobs to provide care for a loved one. Most caregivers are not paid for the support they provide, but there are some programs that may offer financial support. Depending on your loved one’s situation, they may qualify for programs through Medicaid, Veterans Affairs (VA), or some state-based services.
How do I qualify for caregiver payments?
To qualify for financial support as a caregiver, you and the person you care for may need to meet certain requirements. Depending on the program or organization you apply to, you may need:
- A medical or care needs assessment showing the person needs hands-on help with daily activities
- A financial assessment showing limited income and assets
There are often additional requirements. Make sure to check the requirements for each program you consider.
Medicaid programs for caregiver payments
Several Medicaid programs are available to provide payments to caregivers. To be eligible, the person who needs care must be enrolled in Medicaid.
Programs have different names in different states. These examples can help you know what to ask about.
Ask about self-directed personal care programs. Many of these let the person receiving care choose and manage their own caregiver. Names you may hear include Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS) State Plan and Self-Directed Personal Assistance Services. Eligibility rules vary, so ask which ones apply to you.
Ask about the Community First Choice State Plan and HCBS waiver programs. Both are meant for people who would otherwise need care in a nursing home. Waiver programs often have a limited number of spots, so funding isn’t guaranteed, even if the person qualifies.
Ask about Structured Family Caregiving. In this program, an agency pays, trains, and oversees the caregiver. Only some states offer it, usually through a waiver program, so spots may be limited.
Spouses and parents of children under 18 face more restrictions than other family members. Some states allow payment in certain situations, but others don’t allow it at all. Ask about this directly. Adult children, siblings, and friends can be paid caregivers in most programs.
Contact your state Medicaid office
Programs and rules vary a lot by state, so the best way to find out what’s available is to ask. Find your state’s office using the Medicaid by State directory from the American Council on Aging.
When you call, ask:
- Which programs do you offer that pay caregivers?
- Can a family member or friend be paid to provide care?
- What are the eligibility requirements, and how do we apply?
For waiver programs, you might also ask if there’s a waitlist and what help is available while you wait.
Protecting your family home through Medicaid
The Caregiver Child Exception (also called the Caretaker Child Exception) is a Medicaid rule that may help protect a family home when an adult child has been providing care for a parent who enters a nursing home or is getting nursing home-level care at home. Unlike some Medicaid programs, it does not provide direct payment to the caregiver. Instead, it may allow a parent to transfer their home to the adult child without a Medicaid penalty. Usually, the adult child must have lived with and cared for the parent for a certain length of time before the parent needed nursing home-level care. Eligibility requirements vary by state. To qualify, you may need documents showing:
- Proof of the parent-child relationship, such as a birth certificate
- Proof that the adult child lived with and cared for the parent for the required amount of time, such as a driver’s license
- Proof that the parent requires nursing home-level care, such as a doctor’s statement
- Proof that you meet any state-specific requirements
If you are considering this option, check the rules in your state and get help from a professional Medicaid planner to make sure everything is done correctly.
Veterans benefits and caregiver programs
Veterans Affairs (VA) offers programs and benefits that can help pay caregivers of veterans who qualify. They work in different ways:
- Veterans Directed Care gives veterans enrolled in VA healthcare a budget to hire their own caregiver.
- Aid and Attendance and Housebound benefits add to a veteran's monthly VA pension. The veteran can use the money to pay a caregiver.
- The Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) pays a monthly stipend directly to the primary family caregiver of some veterans with service-connected disabilities.
This program provides veterans with a budget to manage the care they need, including help with daily activities, such as bathing, fixing meals, and grocery shopping. Veterans can hire their own caregivers.
All veterans who are enrolled in VA healthcare and meet the clinical requirements for services are eligible for this program, if it’s available in their area. Talk to a VA social worker to find out.
These programs provide additional monthly payments for qualified veterans who are getting a VA pension.
Aid and Attendance eligibility
At least 1 of these must be true. The veteran:
- Needs assistance with daily living activities, such as bathing or dressing
- Lives in a nursing home due to a mental or physical disability
- Spends most of their time in bed due to their illness
- Has limited eyesight, even with corrective lenses
Housebound eligibility
The veteran must have a permanent disability that keeps them mostly confined to their home.
Veterans cannot receive both Aid and Attendance and Housebound benefits at the same time.
Veterans can apply for Aid and Attendance or Housebound benefits online at VA.gov.
This program provides support to caregivers of eligible veterans with service-connected disabilities. Eligible primary family caregivers can receive a monthly stipend and other support, including caregiver education and training, counseling, respite care, certain travel benefits, and, in some cases, access to health insurance through CHAMPVA. Some of these benefits are also available for up to 2 secondary family caregivers.
To be eligible, both the caregiver and the veteran must meet certain requirements.
The caregiver must:
- Be 18 years or older
- Be a family member of the veteran or live (or be willing to live) full time with the veteran
The veteran must:
- Have a VA disability rating of 70% or higher (individual or combined)
- Be discharged from the military or have a date of medical discharge
- Need at least 6 months of continuous, in-person help with everyday needs, such as feeding, bathing, and dressing
- Be enrolled in VA healthcare
You can learn more about PCAFC and apply online at VA.gov.
State-based caregiver programs
Many states offer resources to help caregivers find information and support, including connections to nonprofit or disease-specific organizations. Depending on where you live and your situation, you may qualify for programs that provide payment for a family member or other caregiver who is currently unpaid.
The Family Caregiver Alliance provides a Services by State tool to help you find programs and resources in your area.
Long-term care insurance
If your loved one has long-term care insurance, their policy may help pay for care provided at home, in a nursing home, or in an assisted living facility. Benefits often help cover assistance with daily activities, such as bathing, eating, and dressing.
Some policies have specific requirements about who can provide care and whether they must be licensed, certified, or connected with an approved agency. Many policies don’t pay family members who provide care, but some do.
Long-term care policies may also have limits on how much they will pay, how long benefits will last, and when coverage begins. Review your policy carefully or contact your insurance agent to learn what services and types of caregivers are covered.
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